Wednesday, January 30, 2013
Dear Everyone,
My computer ran out of minutes, so I’m going to finish my
letter by hand and you’ll probably just get it this week sometime. Sorry if my
email was jumbled, there’s just so much I wanted to talk about. I brought a
list of like three pages with bullet points!
We went to the temple this morning, so it’s been a good day.
And yeah, I have been on time to almost everything with my companion, but we
just always seem to lag behind everyone, which anyone who knows how much I love
to be included and in the middle of everything would know how much that
frustrates me, but it’s okay. I’m praying for patience every day. I’m trying to
build a friendship! It’s tough though, I love her and she’s super sweet; but we’re
such opposites! I mean that’s just how life is, I’m not saying anything’s wrong
with her, but it’s just life that not everyone clicks immediately. One of my
teachers, Grossen Testver made a comment about there being two different kinds
of companions that he had on his mission, once that he absolutely loved and was
best friends with and ones that he learned a lot from. I feel like that is so
true! I love all 11 kicsi noverek though and the 3 osi noverek. Between the
three districts there are 14 sisters. There are 18 sisters in the country, but
a few of them are leaving in the next two transfers, so I just found out that
we’re completely doubling the number of sister missionaries in Hungary. So
cool! It’s going to be so sad when our osi leave though, because then we’ll
have a few weeks with just our two districts before our kisci come. However, so
far only 1 person has been called to leave in the March group, one sister. But
the April group that Stephen Godderidge is coming in with is supposedly huge!
Exciting stuff!
We’re expected to leave for Hungary on the 25th
ish of March and my expected release date is July 1, 2014, so expect sometime
around then!
I’m so glad to hear that Morgan’s okay! That’s scary! Send
her a message or text telling her I’m thinking about her!
Yes, a copy of my farewell talk would be nice! Every Sunday we
have a Sacrament meeting with our whole branch, but no talks are assigned. We’re
all told at the beginning of the week what the topic is for Sunday and all
missionaries are expected to prepare a 5 min talk on that and then they
announce 2 or 3 missionaries on Sunday who will be speaking. After breakfast,
we watch Music and the Spoken Word as sisters. That was so spiritual this
Sunday! Then have a Relief Society with all the sisters in the MTC. Sister
Burton came and spoke to us this Sunday. At night we have a fireside.
Apparently 2 weeks before we came, Elder Holland spoke at a Tuesday devotional.
So bummed I missed that! Anyway, we have study times and some other District
meetings and stuff throughout the day on Sunday.
Yes, I do write in my journal every night, even if it is
just a couple sentences I’ve never had such a long streak in my life before
where I haven’t missed a day for a whole week. Sad!
Thanks Dad, but nem, I’m not the most beautiful and definitely
not the most confident sister here. But, thanks, haha. Also, thanks Mom for the
update on Nathan’s underwear shopping… Hahaha! I hope you know I read that
letter during gym time and laughed out loud. Then read it to the other girls on
the bikes with me. Everyone thought it was funny that you told me that. Haha.
Also, thanks for Pres. Uchtdorf’s book excerpts. They’re so helpful and I've shared the quotes with other sisters having struggles too. We go to the temple
on Wednesdays. And yes we can do our own names, but we just do one endowment
session a week.
You sent me a message or post or something that someone had
written to me on FB about like my inner power and loving college with me, but
you didn't say who it was from?!
Nem, the elders didn’t have skirt hangers for us, so mine
are draped on normal ones. At the moment, we’re all using MTC sheets because we
can take them off and they’ll wash them for us whenever and we just grab new
ones; so that’s nice.
Gym time is super nice on Mon. and Fri. when we have it
right before bed and have extra time to shower and get ready while the
residence is empty. It is a nice break though on every day, just being able to
get out of the classroom and clear your mind. It helps us focus better when we
get back into the class. I’ve never learned so much in such a short time. I’m
sure I have over a hundred words memorized and phrases and things. It’s amazing
what you can do with God’s help and the Gift of Tongues.
Hungarian is so hard though! Apparently the joke is Hungary
is that our missionaries could learn Spanish on our P-days. Hahaha, that made
us laugh. Obviously it’s not true; it’s hard to learn any language but
Hungarian is just so rough and doesn’t sound like any other language at all.
The grammar is slightly similar to Finnish, but that’s it. Hungarian doesn’t
have any defined sentence structure, it’s just however they feel like saying
things pretty much, but you have to add on the correct word endings to specify
subject, verb and what kind of object (definite, indefinite, direct, indirect)
and to make things plural or add a preposition, you just add things to the end
of the words, so words get sooo long.
Also, the suitcase strap doesn’t work to strap them
together, it was broken, so that’ll be interesting on transfers…
This week I had such a cool moment in class. We were
practicing grammar and sentences and questions and our teacher, Moody Nővér
asked Hancey Elder in Hungarian: “A missionary are you?” And before he answered
it just like hit me so hard and in my head I was just like WOAH! Where am I? What
am I doing?! I’m a missionary?! What! And I had to look down and check my name
tag. It was a crazy A-HA moment!
I feel like I have so
much to say, but I’ve already written so much and I need to go grab lunch, put
in laundry and plan a lesson for tomorrow morning with Zsofi.
You asked lots of questions about my companion. I’ll get
back to you on that later this week or next week when I have more positive
things to say! Not that it’s a negative experience; it’s just rough for anyone
to constantly be with someone, no matter who 24/7 and always get along/want to
do the same things and adjust to someone else’s schedule. It just takes some
getting used to. We haven’t argued or not gotten along though, so it’s all
good. I have become GREAT friends with a few sisters in my district and the ZL’s.
Hahah. I don’t know how many times I can
say that, but I just love them and meal times are my favorite; when I can just
eat and joke around with all the elders. Poor Elders are way outnumbered in our
district. Two of the ZL’s go to BYU and the third to the U, so we’ve all talked
about hanging out when we get back! It’ll be AWESOME! It’s just weird to not be
able to hug any of them, cause that’s my first instinct when I see someone I
love and feel super comfortable with. Oh, well.
Talon Hicken comes into the MTC today! I’m sooo stoked to
see him! I hope he loves it!
Haha funny thing, our room is kinda messy. BUT surprisingly,
it’s not my mess! Shocking right? Haha.
Anyway, keep the letters coming and if anyone has any very
useful tactics on getting rid of a crush on someone, let me know, because I’ve
been praying hard for it and I feel like it’s such a sin to be interested in
someone in the MTC/on your mission. Haha, I guess that shouldn’t surprise any
of my friends/roommates that that’s what I’m struggling with. So dumb, I wish I
could just flip a switch, haha. But seriously, give me advice here.
I’ll write you all as soon as I can! Stay positive and have
charity! (That’s our district goal this week!) I’ll pray for you all (in
Hungarian, of course, because all of our prayers in class have to be in as much
Hungarian as possible.)
Love you!
Sok Szeretettel,
Butterfield Nővér